Nourishing Your Soul: The Vital Role of Self-Care During the Holidays

A family enjoying a holiday meal together

The holiday season can be particularly challenging for many individuals and families. The holidays often brings more invitations to social gatherings (which can be stressful to my fellow introverts!), food, food, and more food. That's why it's important to focus on self-care during this time. Let's explore how prioritizing self-care can help you navigate the holidays with grace, ease, and a balanced approach to food and body image.

1. Acknowledge Your Emotions

The holiday season can evoke a wide range of emotions, from joy and excitement to stress and anxiety. It's important to acknowledge and validate these emotions, even if they are not all sugar and spice. By recognizing and accepting your feelings, you can better understand your emotional triggers, which is a key aspect of intuitive eating. Once you notice your thoughts, without judgment, let them flow through you noticing that they will pass with time, if you allow.

2. Mindful Eating

Practicing intuitive eating during the holidays means listening to your body's hunger and fullness cues and eating in a way that feels satisfying and nourishing. Mindful eating allows you to savor the flavors of holiday meals and desserts without guilt or overindulgence. By staying attuned to your body's signals, you can enjoy the holiday feast in a balanced way that respects your body's needs.

3. Plan Ahead

Self-care during the holidays includes planning and preparation. Consider planning balanced meals and snacks in advance, so you always have nourishing options on hand. This can help you avoid overindulging due to extreme hunger and stress. Preparing nutritious, satisfying options can be one of your most important acts of self-care for your body.

4. Set Boundaries

Setting boundaries during the holiday season is essential for self-care, especially when it comes to food and social events. Politely declining invitations or choosing which gatherings to attend can help you manage your energy and stress levels. Remember that it's okay to say no when needed to protect your well-being. And before you find yourself in a situation where you need to set boundaries around body talk at the table, check out our blog post on the topic here.

5. Self-Compassion

Practicing self-compassion is an integral part of self-care during the holidays. Instead of being overly critical about your food choices or your body, offer yourself kindness and understanding. Remember that no one is perfect, and imperfections are what make us human. Be mindful of your internal dialogue and notice if it sounds harsh or critical. Would you speak like that to someone else that you love?

6. Connect with Support

If you're struggling with disordered eating or eating disorders, the holidays can be particularly challenging. It's crucial to reach out for support from a registered dietitian, therapist, or support group. Don't hesitate to lean on your support system, as they can provide guidance, encouragement, and empathy during this time.


The holiday season is a wonderful time to celebrate with loved ones and enjoy delicious food. However, it's also a time that can trigger stress, anxiety, and challenging emotions. By practicing self-compassion, setting boundaries, and being mindful of your body's cues, you can navigate the holidays with a healthy relationship with food and your body. Remember, self-care is an essential part of your overall well-being, and it should be a top priority during this festive season.

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